Welcome to the Girl on Top Shalyn Exo podcast.

I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze

celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

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Well, Shalinders, before we begin, let's do our relaxation ritual, okay?

We're going to inhale in through the nose and hold for a few seconds and release one more time this time focusing on dropping our shoulders

unclinching our jaw breathing into the deep belly and really just relaxing our body so one more time in through the nose and out through the mouth.

Because you know what I believe. In order to get the message into your brain, you've got to put

your brain in a state of relaxation where it's receptive. And here we are. Let's wake

the mighty women. So our first question comes from Kristen,

and she said, I met this guy and we've been out once and we made plans to go out again tomorrow.

Great, right? However, he texts me today and asks if we can just be friends because it was going to,

it was going too fast. Um, if anything, he was the one that kept bringing up dating and I was the one thrown

a little bit off. And here he is with the audacity to make me feel like I was moving things

too quickly. Like what? I really liked him and I'm so confused because he was the one who seemed

all in. We're still going to hang out tomorrow just as friends. I know this is a bad idea.

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