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The Look & Sound of Leadership

How To Grow Your Self-Management

The Look & Sound of Leadership

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel

Education, Executive Coaching, Self-improvement, Executive Presence, Careers, Business, Management

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 August 2021

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, a leader feels she lacks courage. She engages her coach in a conversation about how to use self-awareness and self-management as tools to help her become a little bolder. The self-talk scripts discussed in this episode, plus the four-box process Tom described, are available to you in a PDF. You can request it in an email to Tom here or you can download the PDF here. Other resources mentioned in this episode: Last month’s episode connects (like Pop Beads!) to this episode: How...

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the look and sound of leadership.

0:07.0

An ongoing series of executive coaching tips designed to help you be perceived in the

0:11.8

workplace the way you want to be perceived.

0:14.6

I'm Tom Hensho, your executive coach, and today we're talking about how to grow yourself

0:20.4

management.

0:23.6

Chin Sun and I were discussing the discipline of self-awareness.

0:28.7

During our coaching conversation I said people high in self-awareness are able to get their

0:33.6

emotions working for them instead of against them.

0:36.3

She challenged that.

0:38.4

How exactly she wondered did self-awareness help people get their emotions working for

0:43.6

them?

0:44.6

I laughed and said, it's a good point.

0:47.4

It is not only high self-awareness that allows them to get their emotions working for them.

0:52.4

It's also the ability to self-manage.

0:56.0

It's self-awareness and then self-management, and you can't have the second without the

1:00.8

first.

1:01.8

What about the other way around?

1:03.8

She wondered, can you have self-awareness without self-management?

1:07.6

Well, that's an interesting question, Chin Sun.

1:10.0

What do you think?

1:11.6

She said, I suppose you can, right?

1:14.6

Like, suppose I become aware of some pattern of behavior I have with my daughter, just because

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