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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

How to Effectively Communicate What You Want

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2022

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

On the previous episode of Being Well, we talked about how to identify our wants and needs...but identifying our needs is just the first step. After that comes the tricky business of coming to terms with those needs, and communicating them effectively to other people. In this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore best practices for claiming and expressing our needs. This includes how to navigate shame and inhibition, make effective agreements, be considerate of the person on the receiving end of our wants, and become more skillful at negotiation and repair.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, welcome to Being Well, I'm Forest Hanson.

0:10.4

If you're new to the podcast, thanks for joining us today.

0:13.2

This is where we explore the practical science of personal growth, and if you've

0:17.0

listened before, welcome back.

0:19.7

Last week's episode focused on getting in touch with what we need, and once we get to

0:23.8

the point of knowing our wants and needs and desires, we still have a pretty big hurdle

0:29.0

to face, stepping into them for ourselves and expressing those needs to other people.

0:35.3

And that's what we're going to be focusing on today.

0:37.7

To help us learn to do that, I'm joined as usual by Dr. Rick Hanson, because a clinical

0:42.0

psychologist, best-selling author, and he's also my dad.

0:46.0

So dad, how are you doing today?

0:47.4

I'm good, and I'm super psyched about this topic.

0:50.8

Yeah, very much the same.

0:52.4

I was really happy with how our previous conversation turned out.

0:56.2

I think it's going to be helpful for a lot of people, and I'm looking forward to talking

0:59.3

more about it today.

1:01.2

Before we get into it, a couple of quick reminders.

1:03.4

First, if you haven't already, please subscribe to the podcast wherever you're listening

1:07.8

to it.

1:08.8

Now, indeed, your subscription.

1:10.8

Oh, man, you think we have ice fries there, dad, you're just like, I can't fall it together.

1:22.8

That was good.

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