What if I told you that one of the most damaging things to your self-worth is not the terrible

decisions that you've made, not the way that you talk to yourself, not even the consequences

of horrible choices and actions that you've taken in your life.

Not the regret, not the lack of action or motivation.

What if I told you that one of the biggest determining factors in your sense of self-worth

had nothing to do with anything that you've actually done. You see, I've been

working with men for so long over a decade. And one of the things that I've come to see and

come to know and come to understand is that so many men who feel like they have a broken

sense of self, a broken sense of worth or

value, it's not actually something that they created. Maybe they perpetuated it for sure. Maybe they

accentuated it by making terrible decisions and choices. I did the exact same thing, you know,

making bad decisions, lying to myself, lying to their people, having zero

impulse control, not pursuing the things that I knew I needed to do in order to actually respect

myself as a man. Of course, all of those things contribute to a lack of self-worth. But the truth is that for many of you, you struggle with

self-worth because of something so much deeper. That's what we're going to explore today.

I'm going to lay it out for you and talk about how you can actually begin to rectify and develop

this sense of self-worth that maybe has eluded you

or has felt very hard to achieve or attain.

So in order to lay this out, I need to tell you a little bit about attachment.

Because for most of the men that I've worked with, when we really get down to the brass tax, when we really

get down to what is causing your lack of self-worth, sure, there might be some things in your

life that you could do better. Maybe you need to clean up your room, as Jordan Peterson says,

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