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The New Man

How to Deal with Holiday Stress, Guilt, and Family Pressure — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Business, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.6643 Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Are the holidays a source of stress and dread for you? Do you feel boxed in by family obligations? And does the thought of doing things differently feel like it would blow up the whole season? Today Alyson and I dig into the pressure, guilt, and expectations that show up this time of year. We talk about why it’s so hard to break old patterns, what drives the “I have to…” mindset, and how to start honoring what you actually want without torching the relationships that matter most.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/holiday-stress-guilt   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Transcript

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.2

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.9

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.

0:43.8

Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older

0:48.6

version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact

0:53.0

form at triplinear., and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start the

1:10.1

show.

1:18.2

If I'm acting like a child, like I'm afraid to get in trouble, I'm going to upset this person, whether it's my parent or my boss, is to not be a child in that scenario. And so to be the adult

1:25.0

and say, like, I don't need anybody's permission to do this. This is a choice of mine to do that. But I value the relationship. And then to also recognize, like, in an ideal scenario, like, somebody might can have their upset. Ideally, the relationship is strong enough. It's not fragile. I don't want, I don't want to be in dynamics with someone where it only works if I'm kissing

1:47.3

ass. I want to work in partnerships, not in dominant submission. You are listening to the new man

1:55.4

beyond the macho jerk and the new age wimp.

2:05.8

Your host is men's coach Triplamere.

2:14.3

Are the holidays a source of stress and dread for you?

2:19.7

Do you feel boxed in by family obligations? And does the thought of doing things differently feel like it would blow up the whole season? Today, Allison and I dig into the

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