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The New Man

The Sexless Marriage: Can it Be Repaired? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Business, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.6643 Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Are you afraid of being trapped in a sexless marriage? Does your partner treat sex like it’s just another chore? And what are the ways you’re killing your sex life without even knowing it? Today Alyson and I discuss sex — or the lack of sex — in long term relationships. We identify some of the ways we unconsciously kill attraction, what might truly be in the way, and why avoiding the issue just makes it worse.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/sexless-marriage   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.2

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.9

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.

0:43.8

Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older

0:48.6

version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact

0:53.0

form at triplinear., and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading. This book will make you dangerous. And now, let's start

1:10.0

the show.

1:18.5

I want to speak to something here because I'm not sure even if the guys get this, which is we may know that we are loved in our partnership and our relationship, but not feel desired

1:25.9

or wanted. And so it's a huge deal to know that we are also

1:31.4

wanted. And sex is a way that that gets expressed or the way that gets validated in a relationship.

1:37.5

Otherwise, we're kind of in this friend zone or this roommate zone where we could be really friendly

1:41.2

and have a very loving relationship, but we're not actually wanted.

1:46.1

We want to be desired.

1:47.6

Well, yeah, and being wanted as a partner or a really good friend or someone that you do life with is different than being wanted sexually.

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