How to Cultivate a Deep-Rooted Marriage, feat. Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call

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Ian Morgan Cron

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🗓️ 27 March 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Join us for an enlightening episode of the Typology Podcast as we dive deep into the complexities of marriage through the lens of the Enneagram with our special guests, Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call. In this episode, we explore insights from their book, The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.

Discover how the Enneagram can provide clarity in relationships, particularly for those navigating the challenges of shame and vulnerability. Dan, an Enneagram 8, and Steve, an Enneagram 3, share their personal experiences and therapeutic wisdom on how to foster deep connection and understanding in marriage.

Key topics include:

The importance of curiosity in conflict resolution
How to cultivate awareness and mitigate shame and contempt
The role of delight and awe in nurturing intimacy
Practical advice for couples at different stages of marriage

Whether you're in a new relationship or have been in a partnership for decades, this conversation offers valuable wisdom for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from two seasoned experts in the field!

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0:00.0	Hey, Typology Tribe, welcome back to the podcast on which we explore the mystery of the human adventure through the lens of the enneagram.
0:11.0	I'm jumping right in today. I don't want to waste a moment of time. I have my good friends, Dr. Dan Allender, Dr. Steve called.
0:19.8	Dan Allender is an aneogram 8.
0:21.8	Steve is an enneagram 3.
0:23.7	Authors, by the way, of this wonderful, wonderful book,
0:27.4	The Deep-Ruited Marriage.
0:29.4	Hey, guys, welcome back to Typology.
0:32.3	Oh, Ian, what a absolute thrill.
0:34.2	Always a wild ride with you, sir.
0:40.0	So good to be with you guys. We love your podcast, so grateful to have the conversation with you guys. All right. Well, before we dive into the
0:45.0	book, let's dive into the aneagram. Dan, I'm going to put you on pause for one second because you
0:50.2	are a complicated man. But Steve, you are an enneagram three.
0:55.6	You mentioned right as we were coming on that you value or you just think the enneagram
0:59.6	is a useful tool.
1:00.7	Not all PhD psychologists believe that.
1:03.4	Many would sort of view it as kind of being a Myers-Briggs-y kind of loosely researched
1:08.6	and, you know, not very useful instrument.
1:12.0	Tell me about why you appreciate the Enneagram and how it's shown up in your life.
1:15.3	Yeah, I love the Enigram, and I was introduced to it by my wife Lisa.
1:21.0	Lisa is a big fan, loves it.
1:23.0	We've started to use it actually in some of our couples work with therapeutically,
1:27.0	like trying to understand
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