What do getting nervous on a date?

Being upset that someone isn't texting you back

and not being able to get over a breakup

all have in common.

Well, a few minutes ago something really cool happened

live on my members' webinar.

I was asked a question by one of my members

and I said something that is gonna shed light

on many different situations you could be facing right now

and is gonna change your mindset forever.

So check it out right now

and I will see you at the end of this video.

So much of that is being invested in the fantasy

of a person, their potential.

And the reason that we go on a date with someone

and we put them on a pedestal

and we get so excited about them

is because we've allowed the story

to get ahead of where it really is.

Human beings, we're very good at creating story.

You know, we imagine where this will go

based on their qualities, based on how great we are together.

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