I think the best thing that I've discovered, because you always think you kind of have the

impression that maybe after you die, you become different. But from all the evidence that we get when we do our

pair work and we bring through relatives of the people that we're working with, their characters

are 100% the same. I mean, the sense of humour that the spirits have. Nothing changes. They'll tell you

family jokes that you know is a family joke. Yeah. So their personalities are completely the same as when they were alive. Well, I love that. It proves it. See, that's, that's, I'm, as you know, I'm a big believer of bringing the personality through. Yeah. Yeah. There are some fantastic mediums that are out there that can give you the postcode and they'll say yes, they person lived at number 22, whatever, lane or whatever. But if they're not bringing the person back to life and bringing their personality through, what's the point? Yeah, fantastic evidence. Yeah, okay, great. Yeah, I did you used to live at number five or whatever. That's absolutely brilliant, yeah. But I want to hear from my mum. I want to hear from my dad. Bring my dad back to life. I want that personality. Tell me a joke, you know, tell me stuff like that. No one's ever brought forward about a family story of mine, and I'm waiting for someone. I don't know

whether I should tell you about it. But there was a parrot during the Second World War that one of

my relatives had and a bomb drops. My dad lost most of his family during the Second World War. It was

only my dad and my nan that survived the Second World War. The whole lot of them all got hit by a

doodle bug in the east end of London.

And there was a parrot after the explosion, lost all its feathers.

And it lived for about 40 years after losing all its feathers.

And it was a big family joke that at Christmas, people used to knit this little parrot,

a bleming little jumper to wear to keep him warm

because he lost all its feathers and broke back again. Yeah, but I mean, what fantastic evidence would

that be? I've had it. I've had it in the circle. I've had several family jokes. I know I had one.

My dad always used to say at Christmas, we would have, you know,

Christmas pudding and it would be cream or ice cream, but he would always say, where's the custard?

Or if you had custard and ice cream, it would be where's the cream? And it was, he just did it for a laugh.

So I've had that come to me in circle. When we had one lady joined the circle, she hadn't joined it, and it was a

workshop, an open workshop, and she came to the circle. I told her that I could see this giant

flapping fish, and I thought, don't tell her this for God's sake. But in the end, you've taught us,

say whatever you see. So eventually, because i didn't have anything else i said

...