You're not getting what you want out of your business or your life because you want too many things at the same time.

You're not willing to make trade-offs.

And I will prove it to you.

And so in this video, I'll break down the core problem and the way to frame the trades that you make at different seasons in your life.

Everything in life has tradeoffs, and people just need to determine the price versus the value.

Like anything, there's going to be both of these things.

And so when people say, I can't believe he did this, it's because they're only looking at the cost and not the payout.

Now, if you say, hey, that guy made this trade, I wouldn't have made that trade. Awesome. And that's why you don't have to make that trade. Right. And so, I mean, give you kind of like a frame of mind for this. I was thinking about this because we were, Lail and I were looking at home stuff lately. And we're thinking about, you know, buying homes and all that kind of jazz.

And one of the things that was such a striking example is that you cannot have it all.

There are many examples in life where it is, this is not a, I'm sure you've seen it like, you can have it all.

You can't. Let me give you the example. If I say I want to have a house that's in a ski town, but I also want it to be near the beach, and I also want it to be secluded, but I also want to have town and shopping and walking distance. And I also want it to be cozy and not too busy, but I also wanted to have lots of space for activities and a yard.

I can't have all those things.

They are literally structurally impossible for them to all be in the same thing.

One, the beach and the snow mountain, probably not going to exist in the same house.

If I want to have something cozy versus lots of land and

space, probably not going to happen. If I want somebody to be in walking distance but also have a

great aerial view, might not happen. Right? And so each of these things, that one could happen

in a high rise downtown. Okay, that one, maybe. But there's going to be some of these that you

have to make trades. And I think basically like confronting that

is like the core element of what you have to do in life to move forward. And so many people stay

in decision limbo. They stay in purgatory. And purgatory translated into reality that they don't

achieve what they want. They don't get what they want out of life because they never make a trade to

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