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Seeing Other People

How to Be More Attractive Without Playing Games

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Harry Cohen joins us to explain the power of being a “positive energizer,” what it really means to bring good energy into a room, and why it’s often the smallest things that make the biggest difference. We dive into how to show up better in your relationship, how to recover from mistakes without overprocessing, why most people give advice the wrong way, and what Dr. Cohen has learned from 45 years of marriage. Get Harry's book here

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:07.8

Dr. Harry Cohen, welcome to see another people.

0:11.6

My absolute pleasure.

0:13.1

How is your day going so far?

0:15.0

My day is going great so far today.

0:18.3

Just delightful.

0:19.8

What is making it great?

0:21.7

Well, I already accomplished a lot of my goals.

0:24.9

I had great morning time to write my gratitude and think about what I wanted to accomplish

0:30.0

for the day.

0:31.1

I exercised.

0:32.5

I helped some people.

0:34.2

I prepared for this podcast by getting on time and not rushing, had a great breakfast, and did some good.

0:43.0

That is, I love all of that so much because anyone else could have said like, yeah, I woke up,

0:48.5

I did my routine, like, I'm here. It's a fine day, but you're seeing the beauty in so many things.

0:55.3

Well, I practice this stuff. I read and research this stuff, but more importantly is I

1:00.1

practice, practice, practice it. So it never gets old for me. I'm constantly finding new ways

1:05.1

to do what I already know more better, a tiny, tiny, tiny bit. Like today, I do this every morning. I read the chapter and be the sun and I reflect on so how am I going to use it today? And today is frickin' do it. It's the last chapter, last day of the month. And I read something on LinkedIn, which is if you think of someone, reach out and call them or text them. And I did. And I just felt great. I knew that I would,

1:29.4

but it's that kind of, it's the doing that makes the difference. So that's kind of stuff I love.

1:34.9

It is definitely the doing that makes the difference. I've been trying to do that where I'll think

1:39.3

of someone I should reach out to. But then I put it on my to-do list. Exactly. Just do it now. But I eventually

1:45.6

do do it because I need to check things off my to-do list. But yes, I could do it now. I could

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