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Seeing Other People

Bare Minimum or Princess Treatment?

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Ilana’s back from a fun bachelorette weekend in Maine and shares her travel nightmares, while Jake recaps his boys weekend with Barkley. Ilana’s riding high from her best long run yet, while Jake’s stuck on the couch dealing with his calf injury. We dive into the viral street-side walking debate that has TikTok roasting Jake for his so-called lack of etiquette. We break down what actually counts as bare minimum vs princess treatment in relationships, debating location sharing, gender norms, what chivalry really means, and more.

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. I don't think you're going to make it. It's funny. Like now this is week two. And so before you're like, oh, my God, like, I don't know if I can do this today. And it's like, it feels like such a burden. And then like on the podcast, you're like, this is my favorite thing to do. It's my favorite time. It is. Then it shouldn't feel like a burden. But it's the setup. I know. I'm going to learn to set up help with the setup. No, that was really nice. It was really nice. I appreciated it. Okay, you guys, welcome back to co-host for life. I'm Lana he's jake yep yeah you can introduce yourself i'm sorry

0:39.5

that was rude it's okay i'm jake i'm alana alana's husband yeah i'm jake's wife would you prefer if we're

0:47.5

meeting people would you prefer me to introduce you and be like this is my husband jake or for you to be

0:53.7

like i'm jake i think for you to introduce me, right? Like if it was a group of people I've never met them before, I think it makes sense. You introduce somebody else. You're like, this is my husband, Jake. I agree. You know what we should do, though? Because we all have those situations and we run into these like relatively often where one of us runs into someone, but we don't know who they, like we don't remember who they are or their name. And so if I'm running into somebody like from college or from growing up that I and I just don't remember their name. Yeah, but that's a good time for you to introduce. No, but then it's awkward. Oh, because you're saying that, oh, this is my husband, Jake, Jake, and then I'm not saying,

1:30.0

Jake, this is blah, blah, blah. I think you don't have to say, Jake, this is blah, blah, blah. I think it's rude. Why does that person, why should that person, like, meet you, but you not really meet them. No, they'll introduce themselves. Like at that point, then you shake hands. I'm like,

1:45.2

oh, hey, I'm Jake. And then they're like,. Like at that point, then you shake hands.

1:45.0

I'm like, oh, hey, I'm Jake.

1:46.1

And then they're like, yeah, I'm Susie or whatever.

1:48.0

But you're not going to do that.

1:49.7

If I'm just like, oh, this is my husband Jake, you're not going to say, hi, I'm Jake. Yes, I think you can do both. Then you go, hi, this is my, hi, this is my husband, Jake.

1:59.1

Okay.

1:59.6

And then I jump in at that point and say, I am Jake.

2:02.5

But we're just repeating the same thing. this is my husband, Jake, okay, and then I jump in at that point and say, I am Jake.

2:02.5

But we're just repeating the same thing.

2:04.6

No, but then I shake their hand or give them a hug and they say their name in that, saying.

2:09.9

You don't have to know both names to introduce somebody.

2:12.9

I think it feels awkward.

2:15.1

Like we've been in the situation where like I've introduced you, but then not them. And it's awkward. And then we walk away and I'm like, I have no idea who they're. I think it's just awkward for you. Maybe. I think you just feel awkward in the situation. I don't actually think it's like an awkward situation. I think you can go up to somebody and say, this is my husband, Jake, and be done with it. I don't think you have to say their name I don't know that's all polite to introduce both ways though it might be okay versus what you

2:43.5

walk up somebody nobody says anything you wait for me to say hi oh my god hi like so nice to meet you

2:48.8

how sorry he's like so good to see you.

2:51.5

How are you? And then you want me to just intervene in the middle and be like, hi, I'm Jake, by the way.

3:10.0

I'm Alana's husband. Yeah. And that's so much worse now. This is my husband. Okay, how about this? I'll go, this is my husband and you go, hi, I'm Jake. sure still harder but yes but i think we have to like agree that that's what we're going to do. So walk up to somebody. Like, oh my God, Alana, is that you? Oh my God. It's so good to see you. How are you? This is my husband, by the way. And then I go, hi, I'm Jake. Okay, yeah, that's fine. And then they go, hi, I'm Susie susy yeah that's fine you can do that that works

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