Matthew Hussey here with Love Life. Have you ever wondered whether you should date more

than one guy at a time? Every dating expert seems to have a different opinion on this.

But what did Guy has really think about a woman who keeps her options open? Well I'll tell

you how to get the answer at the end of the show. First, let's get into today's episode.

I think people have a tendency to react really badly when things go wrong in their lives.

They have a tendency to either go into victim mode and say this is all me, this always happens

to me. Why is this happening right now? People are people are very caught up on those questions.

Why is this happening? But they don't ask it in a productive way. Of course they're not saying,

let me get to the bottom of this so that I can make sure this doesn't happen next time.

They're more in the mode of being emotional. Why is this happening to me? Why am I always the person

this happens to? Why did these people burn me in the way that they did? Why did this person do this?

They ask all of these questions which lead them to negative answers and don't get them any progress.

But they don't stand there and ask the simple question, what do I need to do?

What do we do next? What do we do now? Those are the questions that will actually move you forward.

Another key question people don't ask. How do we make sure this doesn't happen again? Now this problem

that happened actually becomes something very positive. So this learning process that I've been

through actually is something that can help me in the future. In that way, it can be a gift.

So two questions. What do we need to do next? That's the question you ask when you want to figure

out the solution to a problem right now. What do I need to do now? That'll put you in action mode.

And secondly, how do I make sure this doesn't happen again? That will put you in preparation mode,

where you actually prepare for the future, where you become forward thinking. And if you're

wondering, well, okay, this is great for business. How does this apply for example to my relationships?

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