How to Avoid the Wrong Guy
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
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🗓️ 22 December 2025
⏱️ 17 minutes
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This episode is all about helping you recognize who’s worth your time — and who isn’t.
Whether you're dating for marriage or trying to break old patterns, this conversation guides you through red flags, green flags, and the mindset shifts that lead to healthier choices. You’ll hear real stories, relatable experiences, and gentle but firm reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and emotional maturity.
By the end, you’ll know exactly what to look for in a partner — and how to protect your energy from people who aren’t serious or aligned with your values.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – 01:30 — Purpose & Introduction
01:31 – 05:00 — Spotting Time-Wasters Early
07:01 – 12:00 — Red Flags You Can’t Ignore
12:01 – 17:00 — Green Flags & Healthy Traits
17:01 – 22:00 — Personal Lessons & Real Transformations
22:01 – End — Resources, Support, and Next Steps
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| 0:00.0 | Let me tell you something that no one else will. |
| 0:02.3 | You know that guy you're talking to right now? |
| 0:04.2 | The one who seems so promising. |
| 0:07.0 | The one who texts you, good morning, talks about marriage, quotes Hadith, in his messages, |
| 0:12.8 | all I have to pray. |
| 0:14.2 | What if I told you there's a 70% chance he's just wasting your time? |
| 0:18.8 | I know. |
| 0:19.7 | Sounds harsh, but stay with me. If you keep listening, |
| 0:23.4 | I'm going to show you the exact way to spot early on so you can stop wasting your time. Before we |
| 0:28.7 | dive into this, I want you to know. There are three ways. Once I tell them you're going to be like, |
| 0:33.1 | why didn't they see that? Three ways to reset your mindset around this. Because the goal is not to have |
| 0:38.3 | the perfect man. He doesn't exist. I mean, we're not perfect, right? But the goal is to avoid |
| 0:43.3 | the men that are going to harm you. Drain your energy. Waste your precious time because every |
| 0:48.5 | month you spend with the wrong guy, you're not able to find the right one. And every ounce of energy that you pour into |
| 0:56.5 | someone else who isn't serious is energy you could be investing in yourself, your dean, |
| 1:02.6 | or the right person. So let's stop wasting time. Here's how you spot the wrong guy. Early, |
| 1:09.5 | let's go. Welcome to the mindful Muslim speaks podcast, a safe |
| 1:13.1 | space to learn and grow into the best version of yourself that you're always meant to be. I'm your |
| 1:17.3 | host, mindful Muslim, mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 |
| 1:22.2 | plus years and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide. Now, I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your problems on love, relationships, life balance, reconnecting with al-Lasupana with Aal, getting back on track and more. So grab a cup of coffee and close out those tabs. These next 20 to 30 minutes are all about you. Let's get started. Asa-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-qa'aqa. Welcome back to the podcast. Now, right before we dive in, I have a request. I went on the back end of the podcast and the back end of YouTube. What I notice is 50 to 60% of you that come back week after week and actually leave comments and say, I love this. This is helping me so much. Are not subscribed. Now we have huge, huge ideas for 2026. What makes them happen is if you |
| 2:07.8 | subscribe so I can keep this going and make sure that you get everything you need to get |
| 2:11.8 | yourself married. And if you do that, that would be the biggest thing and that mean a lot. |
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