Hey, everybody. Thank you so much for tuning into my podcast again today. We're going to be talking

about how to approach men as a woman. And so this is something that most of us don't think that we can do or we didn't

even realize like that was an option. In every movie that we ever see, the guy is always approaching

the woman. And so I'm going to share a few tips and tricks on how to do that. If you do see

somebody that you're attracted to, you don't just have to

wait around and hope that they notice you. So it's actually based on a question that somebody sent me,

so I'm going to read that to you. She said, unlearning and how to use of removing some patterns

women have about dating, including asking a random stranger that you find attractive on the

subway or restaurant or something, do you think it's doable in reality? Because first arises

the valid fear of safety, which is not the case for men, that the stranger man may think

you are very forward and get the signal that you are open to sex and consent is not a very

clear term for all men. It means different things to different men depending on their culture and

upbringing. So thank you so much for your question, by the way. She sent me that question like four

months ago and it took me forever to create this podcast. So thank you so much for your

patience and waiting for me. First of all, yes, I do you think it's doable in reality to ask out a guy

or to approach a guy in public that you don't know or a stranger that you find attractive.

So that's the first part of the question and I'll get more into that.

And then the second part of your question about giving him the signal that you're open to sex.

So it sounds like you have kind of a negative connotation with that. Like he shouldn't think

that you're open to sex. But if you're approaching somebody and you want

to date with them or you would like to ask them out and you're not just approaching them because

you want to hang out with them as friends, that does on some level mean that you are sexually

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