Hey everybody. Thank you so much for tuning into my podcast again today or for the first time. Welcome.

Today we're going to be talking about worrying about guys texting you back. So if you're in that state where you texted him

something and now it's been like four hours and you're starting to get anxious or maybe you sent

that risky text and you're starting to have regrets because he hasn't

texted you back or he just takes a really long time to text you back in general, or he's

just not texting you back at all. This podcast is for you. And so the first thing to realize

when we're in this situation is that different people have different texting styles. So, for example,

if you were to text me, it might take me hours or even days to get back to you. And it's not because I'm

rude. It's not because I'm not prioritizing you as a person. It's because, first of all, I hate

texting. Second of all, I always forget texts. I

always look at them and I'm like, oh, I'll respond in a minute when I'm not with this person or

when I'm out of the store. I just can't write back right now. And then I forget that it's there.

And that's why I don't respond to people sometimes. And also, I just don't like texting as a means of, like, connecting.

Some people really love, like, writing long paragraphs and telling each other their life

stories over texts and, like, asking interesting questions.

And I'm not really a fan of that.

I just use texts to kind of set up like meetings or occasionally

to write my boss something. But in general, like I just don't like texting as a means of communication.

And so this is really important to remember because we tend to assume like, for example, if you are the kind of person who texts back, like, immediately when people send you a message, then you might automatically assume that if a guy isn't doing that, it's because, like, you're kind of projecting. So if you were to not respond to somebody, that would mean for you

that you don't like them. But for him, it just might be his texting style. And so it's important

to remember that like just because you always respond very quickly or with long texts or

just in general, like differently than him, that doesn't mean that

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