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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

How Not to Repeat Your Parents' Mistakes (with Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach)

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Pushkin Industries

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.6K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Parents are never perfect - but their mistakes can have a lasting impact on their children. We all carry with us ideas and attitudes planted in us during childhood - and they're not always very helpful for leading a happy life. How can we unlearn some of these things and also prevent ourselves from passing them on if we have kids?

Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach have raised three children together - so have lots of thoughts on this topic. The couple behind the hit podcast We Can Do Hard Things (and a new book We Can Do Hard Things) tell Dr Laurie how they've learned from their upbringings and decided to do a better job with their own family. 


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0:00.0

Pushkin.

0:10.8

Modern parenting has its challenges.

0:15.0

Lunches to prep, laundry to do, homework to help with, soccer drop-offs to shuttle.

0:20.2

There's just a baseline level of stress

0:22.0

and busyness that comes with being a mom or dad today. But life sometimes turns in ways that

0:27.2

sends these usual parental burdens into stress overdrive, like when there's a scary health

0:32.0

diagnosis, or a death in the family, or a job loss. What wisdom can moms and dads turn to during these extra

0:39.0

difficult parenting moments? What can you do to find solace as a caregiver when it feels like

0:44.0

you're the one that needs care? Well, today's two guests have some answers. As the power couple

0:49.6

hosts of the hit podcast, We Can Do Hard Things, best-selling author Glennon Doyle and soccer legend

0:55.3

Abby Wambach are used to handling tough family situations. Since getting married a few years ago,

1:01.0

the pair have navigated the typical challenges of raising three teenagers. But recently, as Glennon

1:06.0

explains, life decided to hurl a series of nasty plot twists their way. A couple years ago, all within like a six-month period,

1:13.5

I was diagnosed with anorexia.

1:15.7

Abby lost her beloved brother, Peter,

1:17.8

and our sister Amanda was diagnosed with breast cancer.

1:22.1

And this weird thing happened was,

1:24.4

you know how in your friend groups or in your family,

1:27.4

there's usually like

1:28.2

one person who is okay and so when you lose your shit you like you can go to somebody to remind you

1:34.4

of who you are or of what it's true and so I think for the first time everybody was unmoored.

1:41.7

How do you cope when your entire family support system is falling apart, when everybody is

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