How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Spend More Time With Me? Ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein (Jordana’s Sister)

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🗓️ 13 September 2020

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

On this Sunday Special, the J’s are joined once again by Jordana’s sister (and fan favorite), clinical psychologist and licensed therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein. They start with a conversation about the biggest challenges couples have been facing since the pandemic began. Then a listener writes in to ask whether or not she should insist her partner cut back on his recreational spending so that they can save more for their future home. Is it fair to expect him to sacrifice the same way she does? Finally, an emailer asks if it’s normal for her boyfriend to continue staying at his family’s vacation home even though they just moved in together. Is it fair to ask him to spend more time at home so that she doesn’t feel so lonely? You can find out more about Dr. Naomi Bernstein at naomibernstein.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:33.6	Hello and welcome to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jorgana Abraham and I am Jared Fried. It is so good to
0:40.7	be back here for a Sunday special episode with you, Jordana. How are you? What's happening?
0:48.4	I'm great. Getting into that fall feeling and I'm very excited because we have a very special
0:56.0	guest today. She's been on our show before. She is my older sister and clinical psychologist,
1:03.3	Dr. Naomi Bernstein. Welcome. Thank you. Hi guys. A fan favorite. People love that episode with you
1:12.3	and just love the whole, just getting into the, the, the, because we're talking out of our asses
1:19.6	here and it's nice to have a professional on here with us. I'll take all the responsibility away
1:24.6	from you guys. That helped. That does help a lot. Yes. If any, if you disagree with anything we say,
1:31.3	now we have a professional to come and tell us how fucked up our thoughts are.
1:37.6	No, it's kind of a really good time talking to you guys last time. I'm working forward to doing it.
1:41.8	And you get some great questions. You guys are forwarded a lot of questions and they're all pretty,
1:46.3	you know, pretty interesting and real deal stuff. So, it's fun. Well, I think for us, we,
1:51.2	we live in this world where like sometimes it's easier to email it than it is to even say and
1:57.2	say to someone that you're sitting within your, like say to a professional, like sometimes it's
2:01.2	just easy to easier to write it down on the page and send it off into the ether of, of this podcast.
2:07.6	And then it's, I would, I would think some of this is very therapeutic for people to even just write.
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