Can You Ever Assume You’re In A Relationship With Someone Without Having “The Talk”?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2020

⏱️ 70 minutes

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J&J start the show with a conversation about all the things diet culture and dating culture have in common, and why people just want to be told what to do. Then a listener writes in to ask how to keep the new guy she’s dating from losing interest in her when he goes on vacation. Is he bound to forget about her if she doesn’t make an effort to keep his attention? The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a daring maneuver, a missed target, and an embarrassing fall off the bed. Then another listener emails to ask whether or not the relationship labels conversation needs to be explicit. Is it fair to assume you can call each other boyfriend and girlfriend without first discussing it? Finally, they finish with some Red Flag or Deal Breakers and a conversation about dating someone who wants to be an influencer. Go to shopbetches.com/collections/uup and check out our latest show merch! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:33.6	Hello and welcome to the U-A podcast. I'm Jordana Averham.
0:38.0	And I am Jared Fried, Jordana. It's great to be back here with you on another Wednesday for another
0:47.3	episode of this fantastic podcast. How are you? What's going on? What's the happening?
0:55.6	Things are good, you know, still in Brooklyn. It's funny. It's funny. I was thinking about this
1:01.6	last night and I actually said something to Mike. I was like, you know, this is like the most time
1:07.6	that we will ever spend together like until we retire or like potentially for the rest of our
1:12.7	lives. It's crazy because I actually had that not the same thought but similar thought kind of
1:20.9	float through my head where I'm like, man, we're not even in the reality of a relationship right
1:27.7	now, Jess and I. Like we're in, we're still in, pan, she just yelled, why?
1:34.2	Is this thing still on? My girlfriend.
1:41.0	She said don't mess with her today. Okay, we can't mess with Jess today. It's been a tough day at
1:45.8	work. Everyone's done their love. Mess with her tomorrow. Yeah, yeah, we'll mess with her tomorrow.
1:49.7	So listen, I did have this thought of same as you. Like they'll never, this is, we're still in
1:57.4	the abnormal land. I know we're drifting away from it every day. You know, people are getting
2:02.9	more normalized to the situation. But you know, I mean, today I posted a tweet about like the
2:08.4	pandemic isn't an excuse and to not date and people were like, there were a couple, but most
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