How Do I Flirt With My Spouse? #654
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 13 December 2023
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Today we discuss the topic of flirting in relationships. Plus, let's explore the concept of 'good naked' and 'bad naked' and how it can impact erotic energies.
It is important to maintain energy and tension in your relationship. One way to do this is through the process of flirting with your spouse. How you ask?
We go over several tips today - including being congruent with who you are, using playful teasing, complimenting each other, and showing genuine interest. We also discuss the role of body language and physical cues in flirting.
Takeaways
Does bad naked negatively impact the connection and energy between spouses?
It is important to maintain tension between spouses.
Flirting is a playful and subtle way of expressing romantic interest.
There are several ways to flirt - but most importantly it must be genuine and authentic.
Instigate - Escalate - Isolate
Episode Chapters
00:00 Welcome to the show
01:25 Topics: How to Flirt
04:30 Discussion on 'Good Naked' and 'Bad Naked'
05:32 Does 'Bad Naked' Impact Erotic Energies?
08:17 Maintaining Energy and Tension in a Relationship
09:37 How to Flirt with Your Spouse
11:42 Defining Flirting and Being Congruent
12:47 Playfulness and Teasing in Flirting
14:14 Complimenting and Genuine Interest
21:36 Body Language and Physical Cues
24:45 Instigating, Escalating, and Isolating
On the Xtended Version ...
An email from an Academy member who is in a dilemma having his wife's reactions to his attraction towards her as him being gross or untrustworthy.
We unpack how there are moves every person makes in marriage. So how do you become more aware of your moves while also making better ones in response to your spouse's moves?
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show. |
| 0:03.0 | I'm Dr. Corey Allen and as always here alongside my wife Pam. |
| 0:07.0 | Always glad to be here. |
| 0:08.0 | On Sex and Marriage Radio, we're going to have regular conversations that help cultivate the space between you and your spouse. |
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| 0:33.6 | So each episode we're going to explore topics that every relationship face. |
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| 1:16.0 | regular version how well do you think you flirt? I'm terrible at it. I may disagree a little bit. How do you think I flirt? I think you're pretty good at it. |
| 1:27.5 | Well, maybe we got some things we can each learn today as we talk about how do we flirt? |
| 1:32.8 | This is from an email that came in from a listener on wife wants him to flirt some more and |
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