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How Do I Confront My Partner About Their Terrible Texting? Ft. Jonathan Van Ness

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2019

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

F*cktober has arrived, aka the season of confusion. J and J are here to offer some clarity, starting with an email about hooking up again the morning after. Does not engaging in morning-after sex ruin your chances of being together? At 37:00 the Awkward Sexual Encounter is all about a weird choice of words. Is it acceptable to tell a girl you’re going to make her “nut” during sex? At 48:00 another listener asks how she should talk to her boyfriend about his terrible texting habits. Then at 1:04:00 they’re joined by Queer Eye star Jonathan Van Ness to talk about his new book Over the Top. They discuss his HIV diagnosis, answer a listener question about trying a same-sex relationship, and share the “forearm test” for figuring out if someone is interested in you. Finally, the close out the show with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker and a celebration of male ass-play.  The U Up? LIVE TOUR, presented by Moxy Hotels, is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets before they sell out by going to Betches.co/uuptour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:26.0

That's FAUXPAS.

0:30.9

Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:35.5

And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana.

0:40.9

It is great to be back here.

0:42.6

Yeah, just minutes after our last recording.

0:45.4

Talking and not listen, we love doing this show.

0:48.8

I think I fully enjoy it. I love that the audience is involved and

0:54.0

they're there. You guys are a part of the show.

0:56.9

You guys send in the... This is how it all works, people.

0:59.8

Okay? You send the emails, we talk it out.

1:04.0

You post on your Instagram stories, tag a bitch.

1:08.8

Or several.

1:09.6

Or several bitches.

1:12.0

And let people know what's going on here.

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