How can I teach my kids responsibility without creating a parentified relationship?

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Dr. Julie Hanks

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 10 August 2021

⏱️ 22 minutes

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In this episode, Dr. Julie Hanks coaches Alyssa and addresses the question, “How can I teach my kids responsibility without creating a parentified relationship?” When teaching children responsibility, a good place to begin is looking at the age appropriateness of the task you're asking them to complete.During this episode, Dr. Hanks also guides Alyssa through identifying the lack of support and resources she felt as a child with responsibilities, and helps her identify how her children's expe...

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0:00.0	Welcome to Ask Dr. Julie Hanks, a safe place for healing conversations that educate and empower you to
0:23.2	prioritize your dreams, revolutionize your family, and personalize your fate. I'm your host,
0:29.2	Dr. Julie Hanks, a psychotherapist and coach offering online courses and programs to help women
0:34.5	all over the world heal themselves and their relationships.
0:38.3	Join me here every week as I coach a listener through a specific challenge and empower them
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1:18.6	Dr. Julie Hanks.com. All right, I am happy to welcome Alyssa to the show today. Welcome, Alyssa.
1:27.4	Thank you. I'm so excited to be here.
1:29.8	So grateful for you and all the work you've done. I've really benefited from your bravery.
1:35.6	Thank you. Your work. I appreciate that. Oh, how nice. Thank you. Right. What is your question for me today?
1:43.8	Well, I am looking for some coaching, how to teach my
1:47.0	kids responsibility around the house. And my complication is I had a lot of responsibility as a child,
1:56.3	watching siblings and caring for the house and was really kind of parentified. And so I have a lot
2:02.8	of reservations, hesitations, a lot of complex feelings around giving my children responsibilities.
2:11.5	And, but I know it benefits them and I want so much to have responsibility and feel empowered that they can contribute.
2:20.7	So I, yeah, looking for some coaching, how to tell if I'm in the middle or if I'm going too far one way or the other.
2:30.3	Yeah, yeah.
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