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All Out in the Open

How can I find a place where I belong?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2020

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Ben and Charlie are joined by Rachel Alder, a Social Worker and Miss Utah 2019 contestant, to talk about belonging. They have a conversation about feeling different, and how they came to find authenticity, support, and a place where they belong.

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0:00.0

Welcome to questions from the closet. I'm Charlie Bird and I'm Ben Shalati.

0:09.2

Each episode we discuss a question that we commonly get asked as LGBTQ Larity Saints.

0:14.0

We are not trying to answer this question or come to a consensus, but simply sharing our perspectives.

0:19.0

Today's question is, how can I find a place where I belong?

0:22.0

So Charlie and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions in life experiences.

0:27.0

For example, we both have roughly the same level of maturity.

0:30.0

But there are some pretty big differences. For example, Ben is 10 years older than I am, so he probably should be a little more mature.

0:37.0

It's hard to act my age.

0:39.0

We would like to provide a variety of voices and perspectives. So today we're joined by Rachel.

0:45.8

Hello. Tell us a little bit about yourself Rachel.

0:48.2

All right, so I am a student. I'm finishing up a degree in social work and neuroscience and I also work in

0:56.2

social work as a caseworker at the Women's Resource Center in downtown Salt Lake.

1:00.1

Fantastic. What do you want to do when you graduate?

1:04.0

Therapy ultimately is at least part of what I want to do and then ultimately I'd like to get a

1:09.5

PhD and do research and kind of some implementation of policy and procedure changes in

1:15.3

foster care.

1:16.3

Wonderful.

1:17.3

Yes.

1:18.3

Rachel I imagine this is a little bit less stressful than the first time I interviewed you?

1:22.0

Most definitely.

1:23.0

So just so everyone knows, I met Rachel when I was judging Miss Utah

1:26.2

this past year 2019.

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