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All Out in the Open

How can I be happy with who I am?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 31 August 2021

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Ben and Charlie are joined by Tyler McFarland and Ryan Clifford to talk about how they came to accept and love who they are.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet.

0:04.2

I'm Ben Shalatti.

0:05.4

And I'm Charlie Bird.

0:06.8

Each episode, we discuss a question we commonly get asked as LGBTQ+, Latter-day Saints.

0:11.3

We're not trying to answer this question, or a kind of consensus, but simply share

0:14.6

in our perspectives.

0:15.6

Today's question is, how can I be happy with who I am?

0:19.4

Ben and I are not terribly diverse, and we share many opinions and life experiences.

0:23.7

For example, we both tend to like people that are not age-appropriate.

0:28.5

However, there are some pretty big differences.

0:30.2

For example, I tend to like younger guys and Charlie, like older guys.

0:33.7

And I hate this.

0:34.7

I'm very embarrassed by this.

0:35.9

It's so awkward.

0:38.4

But I feel like every time there's a guy who's like, like bearded and lumberjacky and like,

0:45.2

I'm like, hey, and then Ben will be like, isn't this person so cute?

0:51.1

I'm like, Ben, they look like third world.

0:53.2

No, no, no, no, no, that is not true.

0:55.2

I said, look like.

0:56.2

No, still, that's really gross.

0:59.0

We're both uncomfortable with it.

1:00.8

But like, I like, I don't know, I like a lumberjack and he likes a return missionary,

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