things start going well right like you would think like oh things are going well like this is this

is a cause for celebration we should be happy the avoidant person sees that increasing closeness

as a danger sign so as you're like yay they're like danger danger get away for me right because

now that we're closer now you're just you're just more able to hurt me.

Like, I've let you in, like, the circle of trust.

And, like, once that happens, now you can really do some damage.

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All right, Gary, we are going to be talking about one of the most fun and exciting topics you

can imagine, which is attachment styles.

Can we have some fun with this conversation today?

Because I feel like most people just start yawning when they start thinking about it.

What is an attachment style and what is all this stuff so I don't know talk to me what do you think about attachment styles you know what you asked if we can have fun with this I think you we absolutely

can because learning about relationships is always fun right you're going to learn something during

this podcast you didn't know before and there's one thing to learn about in relationship

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