And you say basically commitment comes from this idea of your perceived quality of alternatives.

And so that's really just a fancy, goofy way of saying, like, how good of a partner could you be with if you weren't with your current partner?

Right?

And so we all are walking around with this in our head.

I mean, obviously we're not nerdy enough to call

it our perceived quality of alternatives, but it's like, you kind of have a sense of like,

hmm, if I wasn't with the person I'm with, how good could I do out there on the open market?

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Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy. All right, ladies, we have the clickbaitiest of clickbait headlines that Gary told me he wanted to talk about for this week's podcast. And I know nothing about, by the way. So I'm really excited about this in the sense of,

I don't know what he wants to talk about for this week's podcast, and I know nothing about, by the way, so I'm really excited about this in the sense of, I don't know what he wants to talk about. The headline is

what a man is really telling you if he's afraid of commitment. So Gary, what is a man really

telling you if he's afraid of commitment? So I'm glad that I got you guessing. I got you. I'm keeping you on your toes.

But you said it's the click-batedist title.

Apparently you click, my friend. Oh, yes, I did. Click and viewing. Tell me what's up. So was a man really telling you when he's afraid of commitment? And so, you know, what's this about? like when he's afraid of commitment so everyone's heard about commitment phobia right yeah

and so adam like what are's afraid of commitment so everyone's heard about commitment phobia right

yeah and so adam like what are you afraid of is there anything like that you just you have a fear of

fill in the blank like what would it be commitment gary commitment uh just got married no

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