Hotline Calls: Strip Clubs & Sex Boundaries

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 14 March 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance? In this episode, you’ll learn: How to communicate boundaries and advocate for your pleasure in oral sex (without the sore throat aftermath) The best ways to introduce your partner to rimming—yes, even if they’re hesitant How to navigate mismatched libidos, strip club discomfort, and polyamory as a secondary partner Show Notes: Polysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | Barnes & Noble Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble Open Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble “The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory “Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory Polyamory in BLACK! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	Oral sex is to be enjoyed by the giver and the receiver, which is why I do spend so much time
0:07.8	in smart sex.
0:08.5	I have a whole chapter on how to actually receive and give oral sex because I think a lot
0:13.8	of us are pleasers, if we get caught in the moment, we think it's about our partner's pleasure,
0:17.6	but there are ways for us to sort of have our cake you need to.
0:22.0	Give our blow jobs and enjoy them too.
0:25.0	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:27.1	I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:32.1	around sex.
0:33.1	It's another hotline calls episode and my wonderful and talented producer Erica and I are
0:37.7	answering more of your juicy questions. And thank you all, by the way, for trusting us with
0:41.9	your questions. I know they're intimate and you really share so much with us and we really appreciate
0:46.7	it. Today, we're tackling your questions on how to set boundaries on blow jobs, how to help
0:52.1	your partner ease into rim jobs? What to do when your partner
0:55.6	consistently goes to the strip club and navigating polyamorous relationships as a non-primary
1:00.9	partner? Again, if you want to leave a voicemail with your question, please do. Just call my hotline
1:06.0	559-5-9-2-825-5739.
1:15.5	You can also leave me your questions or message me, sex withemly.com slash ask Emily.
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