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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Holiday Peace 101: How to Be Unoffendable, #588

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Julislattery, Society & Culture, Authenticintimacy, Ihatesex, Christian, Relationships, Pornography, Biblicalsexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Ismasturbationasin

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

The holidays should bring peace. Instead, they often bring tension, unresolved hurt, and that one person who knows how to get under your skin.

Today, Juli sits down with author and radio host Brant Hansen to talk about what it means to be "unoffendable"—especially when you're passing the mashed potatoes to someone you struggle to forgive.

Guest: Brant Hansen

 

Follow-up Resources:

Unoffendable by Brant Hansen

How to Have Tough Conversations by Juli Slattery (blog)

When Your Adult Child Makes Choices You Disagree With by Juli Slattery (blog)

Follow Brant Hansen at @branthansen

Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, hey, friend, we are about a week away from Thanksgiving here in the United States.

0:08.0

And let's be honest, for many of us, this upcoming season of holidays of peace and joy and gratitude

0:14.9

is also going to mean maybe some family drama, some unresolved tension and relationships,

0:22.8

and probably at least one dinner conversation that we're already kind of dreading. So if that's you, I can't wait for you

0:28.6

to hear today's conversation on job with Julie. I'm going to be talking with author and radio

0:34.0

host, Brandt Hanson, about what it means to be unoffendable.

0:39.0

Like, how do you set down your relational baggage?

0:41.3

How do you release the weight of resentment that you're carrying?

0:44.6

And actually show love to people that you disagree with.

0:47.9

I know it sounds impossible, but that's where we're headed today.

0:51.4

Brand is going to share some very practical things you can do to respond with

0:54.9

grace to situations that would typically lead just a conflict and tension. So before you head

1:01.7

into the holidays, I would encourage you just to take time to listen to this one. I think it's

1:06.7

going to change the way that you show up at your Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner table this

1:11.5

year. And because I know that this week is going to be really busy for all of us, it's going to fly

1:16.8

by. I want to take a second just to let you know about next week's episode to make sure you don't

1:21.4

miss it. I'm talking to Christian sex therapist, Dr. Deborah Taylor, about why women struggle

1:27.0

to experience sexual pleasure

1:28.6

and what you can do about it. So make sure you sneak away for an hour or just pop in those

1:33.3

earbuds while you're stuffing the turkey because this is a conversation that you're going to

1:37.6

want to hear. All right, let's head to the coffee shop for my conversation with Brant Hanson.

1:53.9

Well, Brandt, thanks for joining us on Job with Julie, and you are no stranger to radio,

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