The virtue I with that yes, I asked Kristen and Cassie because this was a bit of a confusing

situation on Friday where she says, let's go on a break.

He goes on a complete break where he doesn't reach out to her at all.

And she's upset that she doesn't like the way he's handling the breakup because she wanted

a break, but she wanted him to check in and at least see how she's doing.

So I asked Kristen and Cassie to do the impossible.

When you put together a couple of scenarios that always get guys and women screwed up,

when we think we are doing what you want, basically because that's what you asked.

And we're messing it up anyway.

So what are you saying and what do you mean?

And Abby to establish, because you weren't here on Friday, my sentiment is because women

have been conditioned for centuries to not be a burden and we downplay what we need because

we don't want to be like I said, we don't want to be a burden to anybody.

We never really truly ask for what we want or what we need.

So we downplay things and we dismiss our needs.

So we're getting better, but so many can understand.

We don't do this to drive you crazy and to play a game.

I really do think like subconsciously, we've just been conditioned for so long and not to

ask for what we really want because we'll be perceived as a bitch or high maintenance.

Exactly.

So we're trying to change that, but in the meantime, here's a glossary to help.

So we already got the one, when you're on a break, that doesn't mean don't communicate

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