The Fertia.

Yeah, so I have a dating podcast called the breakup breakdown.

So I follow a lot of experts in this field,

whether it's psychologists or dating coaches.

And I've been following this guy named Amwar White

for a while.

And he's a really great follow if you're a black woman dating

because he speaks a lot to those specific issues.

So I've been following and learning a lot from him.

But he actually had this whole video series that I saw where he was

talking about how your dating patterns might actually be reflective of your

profession. Tell me your profession and I'll tell you exactly what you need to work on to get your guy.

As a dating coach for 14 years, an es your fairy godbrother, I've seen it all, I've coached it all, I've heard it all, right?

And what I know is that your profession is directly tied to how you navigate your relationships.

Because ultimately you have a relationship with your career.

Your career, if you're single right now, your man is your boyfriend so I wanted to

share with you kind of the three kinds of careers that I see and what sort of

opportunities there are if you are in this career.

So he hooked me in the intro I was was like, this is fascinating. I can't wait to see it's basically it's just like it's

psychology. No it's so true because I mean I think a lot of professions attract certain types of people and those types of people may have similar

dating patterns or different blind spots in their dating relationship. So I think it's a great way to get a kind of better understanding

for how your job actually reflects how you date.

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