Her Ex used the courts to keep abusing her | Here's how she fought back!
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 12 May 2026
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
How does a survivor handle a stalker who uses the legal system to continue the abuse? Hedya joins the podcast to share her shocking journey through extreme post-separation abuse. From her ex allegedly creating fake profiles to harass her, to him successfully suing her for a dog he gave her as a gift, and finally being served with a defamation lawsuit during her own stand-up comedy set—this story is a masterclass in resilience. Hedya explains how she turned her trauma into comedy and reclaimed her power.Connect with Hedya: https://www.instagram.com/healingwithhedya/Want to Be on the podcast? Fill it out here - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful folks? Welcome to another episode of the Mental |
| 0:04.6 | Healingness Podcast with your favorite, diagnosed Narcissus, Lee Hammock, myself. And today we |
| 0:10.1 | have a very special guest for you. She's going to be sharing her journey about surviving |
| 0:14.3 | post-separation abuse, all the other, all the other just intertwining things about narcissistic |
| 0:19.9 | abuse. So Hedia is a full-time teacher, part-time comedian, sharing lessons and putting on a show both in the classroom and on stage. |
| 0:28.1 | She's taking her pain and turning it into purpose and punchlines. |
| 0:31.5 | And she's here to talk about post-separation abuse, toxic relationship dynamics, and all kinds of things like that. |
| 0:36.4 | Welcome to the show, Ms. Hedji. How are you doing today? Well, thank you so much for having me. I'm super excited. It's been a long time coming, really. Yeah, we've been following each other for years on social media. Years. You taught me everything I know. Years. It's wild. I was like, damn, we've been following children for a long time on social media and whatnot, right? So tell us a little bit about yourself. And I'll get your intro and whatnot, but go between the lines and whatnot. Let's see. Where do I start? So I am a kindergarten teacher. You know, it's hard for me. I mean, I was a first grade teacher, |
| 1:12.5 | and then with everything that I experienced, allegedly, the post-separation abuse and everything, |
| 1:17.7 | I actually left. And then I recently decided to come back to teaching last school year. So it's |
| 1:24.7 | kind of been a healing experience for me. You know, I've been taking my |
| 1:28.3 | power back and just gone back to teaching. It's do stand-up comedy on the side, so every month I |
| 1:35.1 | produce a comedy show called Heckling Hand Comedy for a Cause, where there's a different cause |
| 1:39.8 | every month that we raise money for, so it's just a way to bridge together philanthropy, but also comedy. |
| 1:45.8 | I found a lot of healing through comedy and laughter. And so it's my way to give back. And actually, |
| 1:51.0 | this month is January is Stocking Awareness Month. You know, that's a cause that's deeply personal |
| 1:56.0 | to me right now. And so we're raising money for Spark, which is the stalking prevention awareness and resource |
| 2:03.4 | center. |
| 2:03.8 | They're doing a lot of great work in talking about such a stigmatized, misunderstood subject |
| 2:08.8 | that is tied very closely to post-separation abuse and toxic relationships and all that good |
| 2:16.0 | stuff. |
| 2:19.3 | I didn't know. I've never heard a spark before. That was interesting you. |
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