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Don't Mom Alone Podcast

“Help, I’m Tired of Fighting with my Daughter about Clothes” :: Kari Kampakis [Ep 429]

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Education, Leisure, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.92.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Admit it, you’ve seen a girl somewhere and thought, “I can’t believe her mother let her out of the house wearing that.”

But if you’ve parented a teenage girl, you know it’s just not that simple. 

How can we connect with our daughters and let them know we’re on their side even if we are not on board with certain trends or styles? My guest this week is author, speaker, and mother of four girls, Kari Kampakis. She has walked the road of countless clothing conversations with her girls. She gives practical encouragement for moms to build relationships and learn the art of compromise that doesn’t throw out standards but still lets girls have choices. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey y'all, welcome back to the Don't Mom Alone podcast.

0:10.4

I'm your host Heather McFadian, and this is the place where I get to walk alongside

0:15.2

you and connect you with people and resources so you know that you don't mom alone.

0:21.2

And in this episode, number 429, I'm inviting back to the show, my friend, Carrie Compacus.

0:28.8

I went in like, I'm really trying to prove that I'm on my daughter's team, and so that's

0:33.9

the message we want to just drive home as like, I promise I'm not your enemy, I'm not doing

0:37.5

this to be me.

0:38.5

I'm trying to help you learn, you know, how to dress appropriately and how to dress beautifully

0:44.4

and feel good, but maybe not go towards some of the current trends that are out there.

0:49.7

If you didn't know, I am a mom to four boys.

0:52.4

They are in middle school and high school, and so today I invited my friend, Carrie Compacus.

0:57.1

She's an author speaker, she is a mom to four girls.

1:00.8

She's coming on to help me answer a listener's question.

1:03.8

A listener who is really tired, I mean we're all tired, but tired specifically in the

1:10.2

battle she's having with her daughter over clothing.

1:13.8

And I want to clarify up front one, if you are a boy, mom, this is still a great conversation

1:17.6

to listen to because I think we have our own judgments when we see photos of other girls

1:23.2

or see girls, and it's helpful to hear the whole story.

1:26.7

Also, I want you to know that this is just a conversation between two moms.

1:30.2

We are not talking through research, we are not talking all the ins and outs and the

1:34.0

scriptures and yada yada on modesty and body shaming in all of that, no.

1:38.8

The goal of this episode is one, if you are having battles in your home over clothing

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