You're on the virtue.

So was this brother wrong for not trying to help save his marriage?

Huh?

No. Some people's ability to deflect is masterful.

And it's one of the things I learned over the weekend

at a video shoot that I was at shooting my first music video.

So as I'm there, anytime you shoot a music video,

there's a lot of downtime.

I mean, it's a 12-hour shoot, and in between shooting and filming,

there's really not much to do other than maybe have a drink and talk to some of the staff.

TV's the same way.

Movies are the same way.

It's a lot of like hurry up and wait.

Exactly that.

So in between one of the breaks we had,

there was one of the guys on the staff.

I kind of noticed that he was going in and out on his phone a lot.

Like he would every time it was a break, he would pick up his phone,

and you can kind of tell he wasn't happy to do it.

So I kind of casually asked him one of the times,

not really thinking much of it like,

yeah, I hate man, everything good.

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