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going to read this one right here, right now. Buckle up and hold on time because what we have here

is a strawberry letter. You're stupid. Thank you, nephew's subject. He loves to mention his ex-wife. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married to my high school

sweetheart, but we have only been married for four years. After high school, we went our separate

ways, and he was married for 20 years and had three kids with his wife. I was married for 13 years and I got a divorce and was raising my two children alone

when I reconnected with my high school sweetheart.

We blended our families and picked right back up where we left off in high school.

We have lots in common and we share a lot of old friends and memories.

The only problem I'm having in the

marriage is when my husband mentions how his ex-wife did things and he compares me to her. He makes

sure he always gives me credit as being better than his ex, but I need him to stop mentioning

her altogether.

We were having a crab boil and I peeled the shrimp before adding them to the pot.

He told me he likes a shrimp peeled because he likes a shrimp peeled because Carol used to leave the shell on.

I don't need to know what Carol did with her shrimp.

It's annoying and hurtful, especially when he does it in front of others.

Some of his friends from his previous marriage are now my friends, too.

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