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Here it is the strawberry letter. Subject, this drinking and cussing has to stop. Dear Stephen Shirley,

my husband of 22 years has made a lot of changes in the last six

months. He's been in the military since I met him, and he retired last year, but he still hangs out

with his co-workers. He is always cursed like a sailor because he was a sailor when he was younger.

When we had our first child, I asked him to watch what he said around our daughter

after he slacked up with using profanity.

And he did slack up with using profanity.

Now that he's retired, I think he's frustrated and bored because he started using strong four-letter words,

and he said the kids are old enough to understand.

We have a 17-year-old and a 15-year-old and he curses at them like they are his age.

Not only do I have to put up with his bad language, he put a bar in the basement and bought all brands of alcohol

and his former co-workers pop up at our house and they go downstairs

and drink up all of my husband's liquor. He gets very drunk and usually he falls asleep in the

basement and I have to usher his friends out. Money is not an issue with all of the alcohol,

but I get tired of his buddies drinking up his premium liquor, and they don't give

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