Hey, everybody.

This short segment is called a go-to.

It refers back to this crazy thing we used to do at the end of our sorority meetings in college.

If you can believe that, it was called for the good of the order.

And it was a way to share something that had

emerged over the course of the week, which really was a bit of learning or thinking or feeling that was to everyone's benefit to share.

And so that's all we'll do here. Every Friday, we release a go--to and we encourage you to share it with friends around

the country we know that people use it as a way to stay in touch with their best friends across the

country and of course far-flung family members wherever they might be and as for your local

nearest and dearest consider it fodder for discussion over the course of the weekend.

This is Kelly Corrigan Wonders in our weekly segment called GoTo.

This week's go-to is about the trap of being good.

So I want to describe a woman to you,

let's see if you recognize her.

She wakes up before anyone else in the house.

She's not necessarily a morning person,

but there are things that need to be done

before anyone else's day can start.

She eats standing up.

She's the last person to sit at dinner

and the first to get up and clear the dishes.

She doesn't ask for much. She doesn't take up a lot of room. And if you told her she was good,

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