Hello, gorgeous. Welcome back to the date with Sense podcast. I am feeling, ooh, I'm really

tingly. I'm feeling very inspired. Very excited, extremely optimistic. On a previous podcast, I remember talking about how I told my coach at the

beginning of last year, 2023, that I wanted more power and that I was going to get it. And by the end of the year, I had so much more

internal power and so much in my life. And if you want to listen to that episode, I think it's

like having more power while dating. You can go check that out to like hear my story behind that. And I really committed to that, like creating more power in my life, meaning that I had to take more responsibility in my life. And this year, I have decided that I am going to be focused on being more self-committed.

Like, I'm going to commit to being self-committed.

And I am so excited about it.

And by self-committed, I mean like unwavering belief in myself, unwavering faith in myself, unwavering, faith in myself, unwavering, just committed to my desires and

achieving them for myself. So when you are unwavering, nothing outside of you can tell you different. There is nothing anybody can say

to make you believe less in yourself. And there's also nothing anybody can say to validate you,

to make you feel better about yourself. You are the one who validates you.

You are the person who is extremely clear on what you bring to the world,

what you're capable of doing.

And I'm a high achieving woman of faith who was conditioned to be a good girl. And I still see

someone at residue now, like not just where I play small in different areas of my life and

dim myself in different areas of my life, but also me

looking for outside approval or validation that I'm capable of doing something, looking for

other people to say, oh yeah, you can do that tour. Oh yeah, it's possible for you. Like I just noticed

those places. And I'm like, I'm not really committed to

myself if I need that before I can decide that no, I'm capable of this even without your validation.

Even if everyone tells me I can't do it. Like I need to be so self-committed that none of that matters.

And as I mentioned on a previous podcast episode, it might have been last weeks.

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