Get Used To Her Being Disappointed

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 • 591 Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2023

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Talking points: boundaries, independence, relationships, nice guys Yeah, it's a somewhat controversial title. It's also a challenge. Many, many men bend over backwards to prevent a partner from ever feeling disappointed, and when they inevitably do feel disappointed (because that's life sometimes), they spiral. Listen in. (01:15) - Intro and why I'm talking about this(03:05) - Caveats(04:42) - Why this is important(07:09) - I'm not saying don't have wiggle room! Men, join me for an intense, depth-oriented training regimen called the Men's Self-Leadership Program. Customized curriculum, direct work with me, and limited to just 8 men: https://mantalks.com/mslp/ Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance and join me today. Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Well, team, quick announcement. In September, we are starting once again the men's self-leadership program. And I've run a few dozen of these groups and they are always phenomenal. They are for men who are wanting to go deeper and work with me directly. They are very small groups limited to eight men.
0:23.0	And the program is over the course of three months where you get partnered up with an accountability
0:28.1	partner and I take you through a very depth oriented curriculum to help you overcome the
0:34.9	obstacles that you are facing in your life and step into a deeper level
0:39.3	of leadership within yourself, a deeper level of trust within yourself, being able to make
0:43.9	better decisions within your life, being able to lead yourself in your relationship, in your
0:48.9	finances, and your health, and in your career. So if you're interested in that, head on over to mantox.com and you can check out the MSLP,
0:59.3	the men's self leadership program underneath a training tab.
1:02.1	Or you can just go to mantogs.com forward slash MSLP.
1:06.1	I would suggest that you check it out quickly because spots fill up fast and this program
1:10.6	sells out quickly.
1:12.3	So I look forward to seeing you inside.
1:19.2	Get used to your woman's disappointment. Get used to a woman's disappointment.
1:25.5	Being disappointed in you, being disappointed in your behavior,
1:28.1	being disappointed in, are you forgetting to do something, getting disappointed in you saying no.
1:33.9	I said this in a session with a couple that I'm working with the other day. I said, can you take on the
1:41.2	challenge? I said this to the man. Can you take on the challenge of getting used to her being disappointed in you?
1:46.1	Because the reality is that there are so many men, and this is a lot of nice guy stuff, right?
1:51.0	There are so many men in relationships who are trying to avoid their woman's disappointment.
1:57.8	So they don't say no to watching this TV show that they're not interested in, Love Island or the Bachelorette or whatever it is that she's trying to get you to watch.
2:06.5	They don't say no to going out to the dinner with the girlfriends or to the event that they have no interest in.
2:13.3	They don't say no instead of boundary to the things that they know are going to build resentment
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