The Bird Show. I can't think of any reason that you would want to tell your husband that you have been fantasizing about your coworker.

But maybe she has a good one. Abby has the email.

I'm going to cut right to the chase. I am out of line for fantasizing about a co-worker. Oh, am I out of line for fantasizing about a

co-worker when I'm a married woman? I want to establish out the gate nothing physical has ever transpired between us and it never will.

I say that with certainty, but I can't stop thinking about him.

I'm 30 years old and married to my college sweetheart.

Since I started a new job earlier this year, I had been very attracted to a handsome, smart, and funny colleague.

At first, I thought, or hoped it was just a passing phase, but

it's not. I've never been so attracted to someone who's not my husband. It feels like

an innate emotion, something beyond my control. I haven't said or done

anything to give myself away. Every time we interact I can feel my pulse

quicken and my body begin to warm. I'm in this dreamy state of mind after I talked to him. I

equate it to an intense high school crush. For the record he is single, aware of

my marital status, and has never come on to me.

No matter how hard I try, I cannot stop thinking and fantasizing about him.

Do I just need to suck it up and deal with this in silence?

Or do I need to confess to my husband? Is this

considering cheating even though nothing physical is transpired? The other thing

is I don't feel an ounce of guilt. I think it's because I know I would never

act on these impulses. After all, it's because I know I would never act on these impulses.

After all, it's only a fantasy.

We got a lot of questions to cover here.

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