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Dear Bercho, loyal listener here.

You guys seem to give great advice and I was wondering if any other listeners could give me

insight on the dilemma I'm in.

Back story.

My boyfriend and I met in college and have been dating almost six years.

We have a great relationship and he's my best friend.

He spoils me in every way possible and I knew from the start that this is the man I wanted

to be with for the rest of my life.

He is from another state transferred to my college when we met and when we graduated he moved here to be with me and support me in my career.

I bought a house and we lived together for a couple of years.

Well, he didn't do so well in his career here and landed a great job back home so he decided to move back and we've been long distance for about a year.

He loves his job and loves to be near his family and friends again.

I always knew he wanted to end up back there and I have no problem moving there as well.

He keeps asking me to move and I would have by now if it weren't for this issue.

I don't have many close friends or family here anyway and I can easily find a new job now that I am solid in my career.

Here lies the problem and I know this is something we should have been talking about from the beginning but here we are.

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