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Seeing Other People

From I Do to We Do

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2026

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Eli Weinstein⁠ returns to the pod fresh off releasing ⁠From I Do to We Do⁠, and we’re getting real about what actually makes relationships work — long before kids enter the chat. We talk about the biggest mistakes people make while dating, the underrated green flags that matter for the long game, and why most couples don’t blow up overnight… they just never had the hard conversations early on. Eli breaks down his “import/export list,” the tiny resentments that quietly build into big fights, and how to know what’s worth compromising vs. what’s not. Plus: roommate energy in relationships, interdependence vs. losing yourself, and the pressure-release “rompus moment” every couple needs.

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0:00.0

Ellie Weinstein. Welcome back to seeing other people.

0:06.0

Let's go. I'm so excited. I can't wait. I know I really would have wished I was in New York.

0:12.4

One day.

0:13.3

Sitting on your couch. That's the ideal.

0:16.0

Well, it's not even a couch anymore. Now it's two big comfy chairs.

0:19.5

Even better.

0:20.7

But when you're in New York,

0:21.8

if you want to sit on the couch, I will make it happen. We do work still. So anything is possible.

0:26.9

I'm so excited to have you here. You were such an incredible guest when you joined the podcast before.

0:32.0

And now you are an incredible guest. And you are also now an author. Congratulations. Your book from I do Thu

0:39.3

navigating marriage in the parenting years is out. And I am so excited for you. I'm so excited

0:44.8

for everyone who's going to get to learn from you and read this book and really become better partners,

0:50.8

better parents because of it. So thank you for putting all of your work out there.

0:55.4

Thank you. Thank you for having me again. You know, it's, it's, uh, I always love seeing what

0:59.9

you're doing. So when I get to have opportunity to actually talk to you, um, I'm just, you know,

1:06.1

I'm excited. So back at you. And, and you have been crushing it with new season of the dude therapist coming out too

1:13.0

I know it's so official with like a real trailer like I've never done that before the trailer was

1:17.9

so good I watched it like three times I'm like this is phenomenal it's all rainbow creative the

1:24.6

company that picked me up and you know know, it's just funny when someone

1:28.3

who's a podcast or you're doing it in like the darkness of like your closet or in your office

1:32.8

or your room and you're like, I hope this does. And that was for five years. And finally

1:36.9

someone's like, hey, let's try something. And this, it gives you access to things that you just

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