Difficult In-Laws, Shared PTO & Relationship Dynamics
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 2 March 2026
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
This week we’re recording from Hawaii and reflecting on the trips we’ve taken together, from our first weekend away to big family vacations. We talk about how travel reveals your real relationship dynamic, what happens when you start merging families, and why in-law situations can feel simple for some couples and complicated for others. We also get honest about shared PTO, family expectations, and how different upbringings shape vacation dynamics.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys and welcome back to another episode of seeing other people. I'm Alana. I'm Jake. |
| 0:04.3 | And this is co-host for life. And we are recording. We have recorded now in Italy. We have |
| 0:10.3 | recorded in Turks and Caicos. We have recorded where else. There's got to be other places, right? |
| 0:15.4 | Yeah, now that you're saying, I don't know, though. Well, now we're recording in Kauai, in Hawaii. |
| 0:23.0 | And it's beautiful. We're sitting outside on our little porch and we see mountains. We see ocean. We see palm trees. Well, here's the thing about |
| 0:29.9 | us recording in different places. We've actually only been doing us to the podcast for less than a year. |
| 0:35.6 | Ooh. So to do Italy, Kauai, and Turks and Kekos, in less than a year is a lot of different |
| 0:44.2 | places. |
| 0:44.5 | You're right. |
| 0:45.0 | Oh, and London. |
| 0:45.8 | No, we didn't record in London. |
| 0:47.0 | No, we didn't record in London. |
| 0:48.5 | I recorded. |
| 0:49.2 | We almost should have just to have been like, record in London. |
| 0:52.5 | I recorded in Arizona with Andrew, but. |
| 0:57.1 | We didn't have the podcast at that time. |
| 0:59.0 | Yeah, we didn't have a co-host for life at that time. |
| 1:02.5 | Yeah. |
| 1:03.2 | So anyways, we're in Hawaii for the week with my family, and it's really rare. |
| 1:09.9 | I feel like my whole family, we all live in different places, |
| 1:12.4 | so to get everyone together is always really special and takes a lot of planning. |
| 1:17.7 | And I think your family does a pretty good job with it, too, like getting all together, |
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