From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi

Jillian on Love

Daylight Media

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 13 April 2026

⏱️ 69 minutes

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What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to attract that?” Join Dean and Tony’s free AI Advantage Summit, April 23-25: https://aiadvantagesummit.com/rsvp-now Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey everyone, welcome back to Jillian on Love.
0:08.1	Today's episode is going to be life-changing for you.
0:14.4	I am certain that it is going to be one of the best conversations you have ever heard
0:20.5	about relationships, marriage,
0:24.1	overcoming childhood trauma, and how to make money starting with how you think about money.
0:33.5	I literally cannot wait for you to hear this. Today I welcome Dean Graciosi.
0:40.3	Dean is a multiple New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and investor.
0:45.3	And through his books, courses, podcasts, and live events, he teaches people how to overcome self-doubt,
0:51.3	take control of their future, and create income through
0:55.6	entrepreneurship. This was one of the most life-changing conversations I've had ever since I started
1:01.0	this podcast. And so without further ado, my conversation with Dean. I'm so glad to have you here,
1:08.1	Dean. It's good to be here. You know what's funny is we built a relationship on Zoom.
1:11.5	I know. And I see you today. I'm like, oh, like, we're real. It's actually like real people. I know. It's
1:16.4	kind of surreal. It is. It is. It's great to see you. It's so great to see you. And I, you know, I'm
1:21.1	just going to dive right in because I was actually recently listening to you on a podcast and you
1:26.9	said something. I was like,
1:28.2	oh my God, I cannot wait to have him here to talk to him about it. You mentioned a little bit
1:35.0	about, you know, being married before. Yeah. And how you take 100% responsibility for that.
1:41.8	And then you said, you know, when I was thinking about possibly being in a relationship again, you wrote these two lists. Yeah. I think it was something that Tony had suggested to you. Yeah, I was at his house. At his house. Okay, Tony Robbins for people who are not, who don't know who I'm talking about. But, and you said, two lists. One is what you absolutely have to have yes and the second list what is
2:04.2	absolutely unacceptable yeah and then you said something you said when you looked at the list you
2:09.2	realized that it was actually very self-serving it was like in other words you were thinking you were only
2:15.3	thinking about what the other person had to do.
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