freedom on the other side of a tough decision + finding a new version of yourself after a breakup with Tori Desimone
80/20
Lily Rakow
4.7 • 698 Ratings
🗓️ 28 November 2024
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
"Take a look in the mirror and set a standard for your life..." Tori Desimone joins Lily on the mic to chat about finding freedom on the other side of a tough decision, and how those choices impact the current and future versions of yourself. Tori brings great energy to the studio, the girls share lots of laughs, a few interesting sidebar stories, and their morning and night routine for optimal wellness — including sleep, digestion, and mindset hacks to feel your best.
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| 0:00.0 | We're either going to get engaged or I got to get out of this relationship because it's not serving either of us. |
| 0:07.4 | It kind of made me hold the mirror to my life and be like, okay, well, I know I don't want to date for a while. |
| 0:15.1 | And when I eventually do, what do I want to have in a partner? |
| 0:19.6 | And then when I determine those qualities, it was like, okay, well, who am I to not also have those qualities? |
| 0:25.7 | Yeah. |
| 0:26.1 | So then it really was just like a big, take a look in the mirror and set the standard of your life. So, Tori, welcome to 80-20. |
| 0:45.8 | So happy to have you here. |
| 0:47.0 | No, I'm literally having me a time of my life. |
| 0:49.3 | I know. |
| 0:49.9 | So where are we right now? |
| 0:51.5 | Okay. |
| 0:52.1 | We're at the Spotify Studios in New York. |
| 0:54.2 | We are. And I have the giggles studios in New York. We are. |
| 0:54.7 | And I have the giggles. |
| 0:56.1 | Honestly, a little bit same. |
| 0:57.8 | You and you walked in, you're like, hi. |
| 0:59.8 | And I was like, hi. |
| 1:00.9 | And I was like, I just knew that this is going to be a fun afternoon. |
| 1:03.2 | Yeah. |
| 1:03.7 | I have to like I had the giggles. |
| 1:05.3 | I was telling you five seconds ago. ago since my eye doctor appointment me yesterday they have just not gone away um and i've just been like |
| 1:12.3 | in a slap happy mood you're like giddy about life i'm just giddy about life it's so fun like life is so |
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