I'm trying to do a lot too. I'm trying to build a lot. I'm trying to have this life that means

something to me. And that can mean anything for any one of us, right? What that is that has meaning

could be different for all of us. But if I'm trying to do that, I need consistency.

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So Sophie and I have this thing that we talk about when we work with couples a lot,

and that is the fact that you choose your partner over and over and over.

Like almost every day, you're choosing your relationship again. And that's a concept that's very antithetical to the classic, like, oh, you found the one and now it's just like magical forever. And the reason I think it's important is for two reasons. First of all, for people who are not currently in relationships, we can fall into that trap of going, oh, it was really, really great and now it's not great. This must not be the one. If that's the mentality

through which we, the perspective through which we look at our relationships, I don't think

you ever find the ones, if I'm honest, because there is no relationship that will always be great.

It doesn't exist. It doesn't even

exist in the movies and the stories that we learn and kind of expect what our relationships

will look like from. Right. Like even in the movies, there's always conflict of some sort that

takes place. That's kind of what brings the couples together. But we don't think about that.

What we see is the story of the happily ever after in the end.

But I've talked about this here before.

I want to do a movie one day of like after happily ever after, which is all the stories

of like the princesses and the queens and the all these characters we grew up around and

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