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Hello, hello.

Welcome back to another episode of For the Girls.

I'm your host, Victoria Percivali.

And today, we are talking about chemistry and compatibility.

We're going to break down the difference between them

because I think there are so many, I would say mostly girls.

I was going to say people, but I do feel like it's, it's a female thing.

It's a girl thing.

There are so many of us ladies who confuse chemistry for compatibility. And to be honest, I thought about

this topic because I believe it was actually a conversation I was having with my grandmother.

If I remember correctly who I was talking to, I think it was my grandmother. And she had said to me

like, you know, I'm six months pregnant. So she was like, how long, you know,

are you and Joe like together now? Like really, when did you start dating? And it was this month in

April where we like really officially started dating. We had met in February of 2020. But in April of

2023 is when we became like exclusively together. And so I said, you know what?

I said it's like exactly three years right now. Like April 2026 is like exactly three years.

And she was like, holy shit. Like she's like, you don't know how many of my friends kids or

just women that I know like people in general who

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