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Settling is not an option for me.

Everything I desire is already mine. what if you can have it all

because every day is for the girls hello hello welcome back to another episode of for the girls

i'm your host victoria alerio and today we're talking about how messy action is still action. And this is one of my favorite

topics since forever. I always talk about this. I always preach about this through the

podcast, through my work with my clients. It's just something that I've always believed in.

Because as you girls know, what is my main

saying here on for the girls? Confident is a byproduct of action. You do not get confident

and then take action. You take action and then you get confident. And the thing is, a lot of people

are delaying their boost of confidence because they think

that they need to get confident first before they take action.

I'll do that when I get more confident.

I'll do this, when that, blah, blah, blah, whatever.

And it could not be a worse mindset to have because you are delaying your own growth.

You are delaying your own success thinking that the confidence is just going to hit you

like a truck just on its own when that's not the truth.

The truth is you build confidence the way you build a muscle at the gym. If you want to,

you know, get really strong, it's not just like, I want to be strong. I'm going to think strong

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