All right, follow up Thursday today. So Barbara Smith reminded us of this one here. Her email is

birch show last October. You had a story about a woman who had been married 12 years. Her husband

was terrible in the romance department. She was on the brink of cheating, but decided to try

therapy instead. I got to know, are they in a better place now? And that came from Barbara.

After 12 years of marriage, our listener reached out to us on the brink of cheating.

Her husband was a great guy, but he sucked at satisfying her physically. He was open to

suggestions, but nothing worked. And she was over it. She decided to search for physical satisfaction

through Ashley Madison. That is a website for people who are married who are looking for

an affair. We all advise her not to do it. But she turned her to an asshole. There you go.

She met a guy even went to his hotel room for drinks. Oh, I do remember this.

I don't remember that, but when it's not a tumor promise, but when it came down to doing it,

but when it came down to doing it, she broke down in tears. She couldn't go through with it.

And the man comforted her comforted her for that night. I do remember that, right? And he

any comforted her without his penis. No, no, no. It was different kind of comfort.

Yes. Last we heard she was seeking a sex therapist for her marriage. What has happened?

Okay. Do you remember this? I remember us talking about like when you're about to have an affair,

it's a series of choices that you make, right? So she made a whole bunch of choices leading up to

this, you know, to have this emotional affair, then end up in the hotel room having drinks with

the guy. Now you got three bad choices, right? They just don't fall out of nowhere. Right?

Right. So, but at least she turned around, right? And she's like, nope, not going to do it.

I'm going to try the therapy thing. It's been a rollercoaster of emotions since that night.

I almost made a huge mistake. I went through a world's wind of thoughts, guilt,

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