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Hey guys, it's time for FanonMail Friday.

We're all be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and tactics to help

you kick the weekend off, right?

If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast, this is not a great place to start.

Most of our content is much more in-depth and longer format.

So check out the best of at theartofcharm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at

theartofcharm.com slash toolbox.

That's where we cut down all the fundamentals like body language, eye contact, attraction,

dating, negotiation, etc.

All right, let's cut to it.

So I got an interesting note from somebody who also I found, asked this question later

on Quora and there was a bomb answer there by my boy, Kai Peter Chang.

So I'm going to read his answer, which I 1,000% agree with to this exact same question.

The question goes a little something like this.

What's my social status?

Should I date up or should I date down?

I see many references to one's social status, such as data up and Mary up, etc.

So what's my social status?

I'm 33 white, single, healthy.

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