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The Art of Charm

Fan Mail Friday #80 | Should Broken Trust Be Rebuilt?

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2016

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: In a relationship, can trust be rebuilt once broken? More important: should it be? A self-described alpha female has been trying Kimberly Seltzer's dating advice, but it seems to be backfiring. What's the deal? Do men really love "bitches?" (Her word, not ours!) Do you find yourself constantly getting placed into positions of leadership by others? Is it really possible to get left holding the ladder...for yourself? Do you ever create scenarios or situations you may encounter with others and try to solve them before they actually exist -- and does this lead to false judgments and misunderstandings? How do you continue to work with someone who is insecure, insincere, and threatened by you, but is definitely not going anywhere because the CEO believes in him? Quick shoutouts to Joshua Francium from Indiana -- who listens to AoC on his morning commutes -- and architect Michael Robin in Shanghai, who listens while he designs buildings! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! DesignCrowd helps startups and small businesses crowdsource custom graphics, logos, Web design -- even tattoo designs! Check out DesignCrowd.com/Charm for a special $100 VIP offer for our listeners or enter the discount code CHARM when posting a project. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Jordan will be speaking at Thrive — the for-purpose entrepreneur event — in San Diego this year! If you want to go, grab a ticket here and use promo code AOC for 20% off! Take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text CHARMED to 33444. We'll take you step by step to becoming better at making personal and professional connections, becoming a better networker, increasing your personal social capital and charisma. This is for both men and women! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-80-should-broken-trust-be-rebuilt/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason de Filippo

0:05.0

Here at the Art of Charm we don't have all the answers

0:07.4

But we definitely have all the right questions today on fan mail Friday those questions come from you

0:12.1

If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast fan mail Friday is not the ideal place to start most of our content is much more in depth

0:19.0

Then much longer format so check out the best of at the Art of Charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com

0:26.1

slash toolbox. That's where we've got the fundamentals of body language and nonverbal communication

0:31.2

Attraction negotiation networking influence persuasion and everything else we teach here at the Art of Charm

0:36.8

We'll send all this to your inbox if you text charmed that's C-H-A-R-M-E-D to 3 3 4 4 4 in the USA or if you're anywhere else

0:44.9

Just go to the art of Charm.com. All right. Let's cut to it. Hello Jordan about a year ago

0:49.9

I was incredibly unhappy with my job so I quit. I was in a place

0:53.4

I thought I would never find myself completely unhappy with everything in my life in a city

0:57.9

I worked so hard to move to for school but completely unhappy single alone

1:02.6

Unemployed and just an overall negative person. I decided things needed to change and I moved back home two hours away

1:09.1

To my parents house to really figure out things and to find a new job

1:12.3

I discovered your podcast around this time and I can say that it helped me in this reset process

1:17.3

During this time I met my boyfriend and was driving back and forth the two hours of the city for school and to see him

1:22.7

I ended up moving back to the city landing a job in software paying double my previous salary and graduating with my bachelor's degree this past May

1:31.1

During the 10 months my boyfriend and I have been together

1:33.4

I can honestly say I felt deeply in love with him and he expressed the feelings are mutual

1:37.7

I've never in any relationships

1:39.9

I've been in felt so sure and secure about my feelings and about the overall trust in our relationship

1:44.8

For the time we've been together

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